If you and your spouse can’t seem to get past the cycle of endless fights and recriminations, you may be considering filing for divorce. For those with minor children, separating over summer break may make sense.
Researchers at the University of Washington may agree, as a recent study found that divorce filings tend to peak during the summer, with a particular uptick in August. These filings often come on the heels of family vacations and other events.
Plan your move accordingly
You don’t want to act impulsively now. If you are planning on filing for divorce, make sure that you plot your exit before pulling the trigger on your marriage.
That can look different depending on your family’s unique circumstances. But one thing is for sure — you will need access to certain documents, so gather them for photocopies before filing your petition for divorce.
Why summer works well for separation
For parents of minor children, a summer separation gives the kids some time and space to process their new normal before being thrust back into the hustle and bustle of school and activities.
That can be just the buffer they need to express any anxieties they may have over the changes. Parents can arrange for counseling if they feel the kids could benefit.
Separation can disrupt summer plans
If you do plan on separating from your spouse this summer, you might want to plan the separation date around any vacations or holiday events. No one wants to be blindsided by divorce on a family vacation, so use common sense and empathy when determining your filing date.
Assemble a strong support team
For those facing a summer divorce, having a supportive team in place can be a game-changer. Learning more about your rights and responsibilities under Ohio law is prudent now.