Out with the old and in with the new! That’s the rallying cry heard in January as people decide to better themselves and their lives in the new year.
But what if the “new” includes a divorce filing? Read on to learn more about why January is unofficially known in the legal industry as “divorce month” and what you can do if you get served with a divorce petition.
Why now?
Think back to the recent holidays. Were you and your spouse gritting your teeth to get through the past few weeks? If so, divorce might have been foremost in both your minds.
But even if you were gobsmacked by the filing, some reflection and honesty may show you that your marriage has been on life support for quite a while now. It’s time to face some unpleasant truths and decide on a response.
Don’t act in haste
Whether you are the plaintiff filing for divorce or the defendant who was blindsided, take the time to act or respond appropriately. A major life change like divorce deserves a strategic approach and a measured response. Decide what it is you want to gain from this change in your marital status and go from there.
Surround yourself with support
Both plaintiffs and defendants in a divorce need support at these crucial times. That support can come in the form of family, friends and professionals. The common denominator should be that they are solidly on your side and available to support you and your decisions throughout the divorce process.